已亮的天空




已亮的天空这本书是一个关于走出家庭创伤的故事,是个感动的故事。作者是冯以量。故事叙述作者的父亲染上赌瘾,直到连自己孩子的钱也偷了去赌。一天,他还欠着一笔债时,离开作者一家。他回家时,已患上末期癌症。


作者开始恨起父亲,和生病的父亲唱反调。他以为家人也会恨父亲。最终,父亲倒下了。葬礼上,全家都十分伤心。作者觉得非常奇怪,为什么大家平时都对父亲不理不睬,这时却这么伤心。而自己也觉得非常内疚且惭愧。不久,母亲也患上癌症,去世了。接着,就是叙说作者怎么走出这些事。想要知道的话,自己去买这本书吧。。。


在这一本书里,作者发现家庭是一种系统。这一点说的没错。系统英文就是"system"。System is made up of different parts but the change of one part may effect the related parts。在一个家庭系统里,我们各自扮演自己的角色。当其中一个成员伤心,其他的成员也将被影响。比如说:当一个人知道自己将离开家人,不只是他会感到伤心, 他自己的妻子、孩子以及兄弟姐妹都会感到伤心。正如当你考取辉煌的成绩,你的家人肯定会替你感到高兴、骄傲。


此外,作者会恨自己的父亲是因为愛。爱与恨都有着一个“心”字。刘墉写过这一本叫做<<为什么爱总是矛盾?>> 的书。读了后,我感觉到有时爱的确是矛盾的。


作者也提到一个人去世时是结束了生命,而不是关系。关系是永远结束不了的。例如:我最小的弟弟出世前,我的公公已经去世了。然而,我们还是会拿公公的相片,并告诉他相片里的人就是你的公公。这不就证明了关系不会结束的吗?

PD trip !!!

Yay!!! First day of holidays.... Second last day of holidays for my sis and bros though. Early in the morning, we put our bags into the car and off we go... with me as the driver... First time driving for me for long distances...

Everything is smooth, the traffic is flowing and everything is well. The lunch and dinner of the day will be at Lukut, a town after Port Dickson.. Before lunch, we went to the Ostrich Farm. We miss the ostrich race... Awwwww

After that, we went to Lukut for lunch... My sis said she saw a Wesleyan at the place we ate but i got no idea... Anyway, we went to the place we are staying for the night. It is The Legends, Water Chalet. The water chalet is very special i say. Hard to describe :D

Anyway, the beach is very disappointing... Very dirty and a lot of stones. Imagine you waling on stones.. and sharp ones..

The second day, we went home around noon. We did not use the highway to go home. We went to a place called Bukit Pelanduk to buy... Dou Sa Beng (tambun biscuit, is it?) We bought 50+ and these are not the small size ones you get from Penang. We aim to finish them in one week.. After that, we go bak home straightaway...

Finish T3, T4, T5!!!!

Yay... finally its OVER!!! Well my exams are over now... 3 papers, 3 days, 6 hours. Seems like relaxing huh... Each day one paper only. If anyone say that my course is easy, I'll smack that person till he wakes up...

Today's paper is the hardest of all... 10 theories questions and they are know or not, do or die. Paid few hundred bucks for these 3 exam papers...

As usual, we entered the hall... fill in our particulars n bla bla bla...

Then the invigilators start giving out exam questions. This few days right, the invigilators have been using "We will report your conduct to ACCA Malaysia" whenever there are people talking before the exam start.. (-.-")

The last paper was very unexpected la.... There was about 2 questions which are not in my notes that the lecturer gave... Some in BPP textbook which is nicely shown to every student.. Sadly, I didn't focus much on the BPP textbook although I photostated it. Well for your information, every student has been using Kaplan textbook since last June...

After exam, I just rushed home... Very sleepy... Have to pack my bag also...

Pinching!!!

This sounds weird to you guys right? Well to be honest i fell funny also. Well its holidays for my sister and brothers. Today, my youngest brother came up to me suddenly and start pinching my cheek....Grrr... And I of course pinched him back..

This is like bullying each other.. Haha.. Anyway, this reminded me of my Standard 5 year.. which is the year pinching is a very usual activity for me in class.. I won't tell you guys anything about it... If you want to find out, go and ask my primary school friends and they will know it... or maybe they will

Anyway, thats all for now. Get to go to study. Exams on Wednesday, end on Friday and I still have a lot of things to study...